As many of us do around the New Years holiday, I’ve been thinking this week about the past year and its milestones. There have been a lot of highs: birth of a new grandson; our granddaughter’s first performance en pointe in The Nutcracker a couple of weeks ago; a wonderful Christmas; good health, mostly; a new smartphone; promotions for both Michele and me; a 23rd year clean and sober for the two of us; a good — possibly great — new quarterback for the Dolphins; my 50th high school reunion; a new Sunrise facility in Ft. Lauderdale; another birthday (not all that great, but it beats the alternative by a mile), and stuff like that.
The lows were few, really. The death of my friend and coworker Gary was probably the biggest one for me personally. There have been so many on the national and international scene that I won’t even try to number them. It is what it is. Life goes on.
One of the biggest things for me, though, is the satisfaction I’ve gotten from writing for this blog and my own websites. I spent a big part of my life trying to do important things, with greater or lesser success depending on how you measure that. Looking back, though, no personal accomplishment begins to compare with the feeling I get from writing about recovery, answering questions for newcomers, and generally knowing that I’m contributing to the good of the recovering community.
I don’t want to sound like I’m bragging. Far from it. I’m always amazed that people appreciate what I do, and that I’m able to do it. I can’t take credit for the abilities and tools I have at my disposal, nor for the fact that other folks are happy to provide me with the information I need to do these things. About the only thing I can take credit for myself is the willingness to learn and pass on what I’ve picked up along the way, and you folks reward me for that by reading the stuff I write and telling me that it has helped. Yeah, I get paid for some of it, but (don’t tell the boss) I’d do it anyway. You can do it too. Just go to a meeting and talk to someone. That’s how it works. It feels good, and it helps you stay sober.
This is going to be a good year. I can feel it coming on.
Happy New Year!



Happy Thanksgiving To Our Alumni And Staff!
Sunrise Detox is about people, so we’d like to mention a few that we’re thankful for this holiday season.
We’re thankful for our dedicated people at Sunrise Detox in Lake Worth and New Jersey. We’re thankful for the professionals who worked to get Sunrise Detox Ft. Lauderdale up and running, and who helped us successfully pass our Joint Commission inspection last week. We’re thankful for our marketers and the folks who are busy preparing for our planned facilities elsewhere, especially the leaders who work so hard to help Sunrise grow and maintain its professional standards. We’re thankful for our housekeepers, maintenance, techs, nursing staff, therapists and office support personnel. Sunrise wouldn’t exist without you.
And we’re thankful for our clients. You are not only our reason for being, you are the measure of our success. We operate an unusual business, measured by the customers who don’t return. Each of you who walks out our doors carries our heartfelt wish that you succeed. Some of you go on to treatment and the 12-step rooms, and others choose different paths. Our hopes go with you all. We’re thankful, too, for those who do return to us — thankful that you made it back, that the disease of addiction was cheated one more time, and that you’ll have another chance.
So this holiday season, and especially on Thanksgiving, we have a lot to be grateful for. If we did a gratitude list, it would be far too long, so we simply say to all of you…
HAPPY THANKSGIVING!